About Me

I am 50 years old. I grew up in a small community in the mountains of Virginia and currently live on and manage the farm where I was raised. Growing up I was basically a good girl who did what she was told….maybe to a fault. I did well in school, I went to college, I got a degree, I got a job. I was taught to be nice to everyone, to not question things, and be good. To me there always seemed to be something about all that that was just not quite right. Well, numerous jobs and three ex-husbands later, here I am!

For those of you who really know me I am basically a good person but I lean, okay maybe a little more than lean, toward being an opinionated, non-conforming bitch who gets frustrated at others who hide their heads in the sand and just accept “what is”.  It took me about 40 years to learn I didn’t have to take everyone’s shit and be happy with it!

Over the years I have journaled when I am the most frustrated. So my blog is made up of my opinions, past and present, and are intended to make you think and feel! Some will make you laugh, some will make you cry, and some will piss you off! So be it!! It is time that we stop hiding, step out of our comfort zone and THINK for ourselves, QUESTION “what is”, and LIVE again!

Enjoy!